Feminism as in equal outcomes for men and women is a dead letter. This was the kind of feminism I was brought up on. And the reality has been that girls can do anything a boy can do once a boy has done it first and then shown them how. And even then, only a handful of girls will even be interested.
The feminism that works for me is where women should be free to attempt anything they like but should not be given an easier ride and must be held to the same standards as men. Second stage feminism argued that women were not given the opportunity to succeed. However true that might once have been it is true no longer.